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PARENT REVIEWS & FANS:

"Such simple ideas to incorporate and an absolute pleasure to see a child transform before your eyes! Thank you!"

  • Sabrina DaSilva Friesen; Winnipeg, Manitoba

The best guide for a happy family!"
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"A perfect guide for mom and dad to grow with their kids."

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    New Delhi, India

"I can now say I always look forward to doing more with my son, taking into account how well he responds to the tips we’ve aimed to follow as a result of your advice.  Thank you so much for all the help you’ve sent our way.  If my son only knew the things you’ve taught us, he’d love you guys as well!"
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    San Diego, USA

"As I work as a child psychotherapist, behavioural therapist, and neurology nurse specialist I am always keen to keep up to date with any different approaches for family therapy and child behaviour. Your little book, Democratic Parenting is just great and the advice given is perfect. As a professional therapist I am more than happy to support the techniques and strategies you recommend. Best Wishes."
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    Republic of Mauritius

"A helpful, fun and informative source to assist all parents raising happy children."
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"I just downloaded your e-book a few days ago and am happy to say that it has already made a huge difference in my attitude towards my three and a half year old and his attitude towards me! It's a win-win situation!!! I'm learning each and every minute along the way of this beautiful parenting journey!"
  • Tarannum; Durban,
    South Africa

"Life is so much easier since getting your program. All the info provided was so simple and easy and really does work. We weren’t having major behavioral problems but it was definitely enough to stress me out and now it is over and I am HAPPY! Thanks"
  • Sarah; Gold Coast, Australia

"I have certainly enjoyed all the mails you have sent to me and forwarded them along to my daughters...I can tell you that with the 3 year old, the change in her is already amazing...."
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About Democratic Parenting?

  • 1. What is Democratic Parenting?
    • Democratic Parenting is an approach to parenting that is focused on raising a generation of clear thinking children whom are motivated not by fear, doubt nor insecurity, but guided by love, good judgement and respect. The book contains an entire system as to how to accomplish this without using coercive, punitive or reward systems. You can order the book here.
  • 2. How does it work?
    • It's not easy to raise kids - let alone happy kids! The skills taught in Democratic Parenting have been described as a powerful and practical method to make the journey happen. All you have to do is read the book and apply the methods. You'll see the changes in your child almost instantly. You can order the book here.
  • 3. Who is it for?
    • This book is not just for families with behavioral challenges, this book is for all parents. It's a useful reference for all caregivers of children who want to raise a truly empowered next generation. Grandparents, babysitters, nannies and teachers will all find Democratic Parenting of great value and encouragement. You can order the book here.
  • 4. Does it work better for boys or girls?
    • Who says you need to discipline boys and girls differently to get them to listen? The truth is that you DON'T. However, some differences are important to understand. One of them is how boys are usually encouraged to repress their feelings in the modern society more than girls are.  Regardless of these differences, Democratic Parenting includes parenting and discipline strategies that equally apply to both genders. You can order the book here.
  • 5. Does it work with teens?
    • We developed this program as a way for parents to learn how to control the hidden triggers of misbehavior, and how to respond to the needs without resorting to authoritarian or permissive discipline.

      Although the current edition of the Democratic Parenting book is focused on kids from one to twelve, parents of teenagers can apply the exact same principles and methods with teens.  Communication, limit setting, family meetings and natural consequences are some of the key chapters parents of teens can use to enhance open dialogue and respect with their teens.  In fact it even works with misbehaving adults!  
  • 6. Does it work with babies?
    • The principles and methods apply to children of all ages. We developed this program as a way for parents to learn how to control the hidden triggers of misbehavior, and how to respond to the needs without resorting to authoritarian or permissive discipline. Although the current edition of the Democratic Parenting book is focused on kids from one to twelve, parents of babies will greatly benefit from the chapters on stress, healing and the hidden triggers of behavior.

      Kids grow up so fast! It seems one day they are a sweet little baby and the next they are toddling around the house. Democratic Parenting is invaluable for all parents of babies because within months, right in front of your eyes, they'll morph into little toddlers. If you are a parent of a baby, or you know someone who is, then get this book. It will be the best present the baby will receive. You can order the book here.
  • 7. What if the parents disagree?
    • When parents disagree about how to raise their kids it can be really tough. The stress created by this has even been known to lead towards parent break-up. As challenging as this can be, it's a reality for so many modern parents. Sometiems there are big disagreements, sometimes small ones.

      What we recommend for parents in this situation is to immediately stop arguing with the other parent. Stop the conflict as soon as possible (LIKE NOW). If the child's safety is at risk, then intervention should be swift and immediate, to prevent physical or mental harm to the child.

      Luckily, a speedy resolution and a total transformation of your family environment is actually possible. Just follow these three steps...

      1) In most cases one parent tends to be more authoritarian, while the other is more permissive. Whichever approach you tend to, you must first disengage from the conflict by neither defending your way, nor attacking the others.

      2) The second step is to read Democratic Parenting. Order the book, read it, and start to practice it on your own.

      3) If you have a history of butting heads with your partner over your parenting styles, then whatever you do, do not try and stuff Democratic Parenting down their throat. This will only make them more defensive and more resistant to any change. The best method is to simply leave the book lying around the house where they can see it. Allow them to open and flip through the book on their own. Let the book itself do the speaking, and you just focus on practicing the methods yourself with the kids.

      If you are no longer with the other parent of your child, then the same thing applies. Do not argue or engage in any conflicts with them. Instead, give them Democratic Parenting as a gift. You don't even have to say anything with it. Wrap it up and say: "Here's a gift for you."

      If the disagreement is pretty minor and the parents still have a positive dialogue, then the other parent may be quite open to the principles in Democratic Parenting. You can order the book here.
  • 8. Why does it include information about food, exercise and sleep?
    • Most readers have told us that the nutrition section of the book alone was well worth the price of the book; it opened their eyes to dozens of things that they had never realized they were doing wrong. You'll learn which foods help a child's focus, immune system and behavior.

      Exercise and smart sleeping habits are a need for growing bodies. Children need to have an appropriate amount of exercise, but too much stimulation and stress will wipe them out. The book explains how much exercise kids need, how to unplug lazy kids from video games and how to get them running around outside.

      How do you deal when your child resists bedtime? Is the morning a struggle to get out the door on time? How is sleep, exercise and food all connected to a child's behavior? Find out in Democratic Parenting. You can order the book here.
  • 9. How do normal kids benefit?
    • This book contains principles of behavior that apply to all children. Normal and Special. It's not just for families with behavioral challenges, this book is for all parents. It's a useful reference for all caregivers of children who want to raise a truly empowered next generation. Grandparents, babysitters, nannies and teachers will all find this book of great value and encouragement. The methods in the book works to increase the cooperation of any child, even children who are already mostly well behaved. Among other skills, you will learn ways to improve your child's communication skills, and how to improve their concentration abilities. You can order the book here.
  • 10. Who is the author?
    • The author is Blaise T. Ryan, editor-in-chief is Bruce W. Spurr, and Ashley O. Ryan is a contributer.
  • 11. How do I access the free bonuses?
    • The six free bonuses are available for instant download in your account area on this website. If you bought your book from this website, then you should receive an email with instructions as to how to login and access these.

      If you bought your book from Amazon or another retailer, then you need to e-mail us a copy of your receipt to support@ parentlearningclub.com We will e-mail you back your username and password so you can also access these six free bonuses. You can order the book here.
  • 12. I'm having trouble opening the eBook file?
    • In order to open the eBook or the PDF bonuses, you need a PDF reader. You can use Adobe's free PDF reader by downloading it here:Adobe Reader
  • 13. What have other parents said about it?
    • Tens of thousands of parents follow Democratic Parenting, and quite a few have written to us to tell us their story. You can read some of them on the left side of the page or on our facebook page.

    Child Behavior Questions?

  • 1. What kind of behavioral problems can it help with?
    • This book is not just for families with major challenges. This book is for all parents. But if you are having major issues with your child's behavior - this book is definitely for you. You will discover gems and methods to deal with virtually any kind of behavioral problem. What makes Democratic Parenting so effective in resolving challenging behaviors is the approach. The methods focus on the root-cause of the behavior. This is the only way you can make permanent and swift change in your child's behavior: by focusing on the root-cause. You can order the book here.
  • 2. "It's time for sleep!" How to deal with sleeping issues?
    • It can be so frustrating when children avoid going to bed or downright resist it with bedtime dramas or tantrums. Other children don't stay in their own bed and wake you up at night. Do your kids wake up at night? Chapter 17 in Democratic Parenting deals exclusively with Smart Sleeping Habits. You can order the book here.
  • 3. Tantrums, defiance, backtalk and arguments
    • In Democratic Parenting you will learn dozens of different ways you can respond to your child's rebelliousness, resistance or trouble-making. All of which include no punishments and no rewards. How is this possible? By using the methods of Connective Communication and Setting Limits, described on pages 115 to 164 in the Democratic Parenting. You can order the book here.
  • 4. Bullying, peer pressure and confidence
    • What do bullies prey on? Low self-esteem and poor self-confidence. Children raised in the oppressive environments of authoritarian parenting become at risk for not only being the victim of a bully, but sometimes for becoming the actual bully.

      One of the risks of using a reward or incentive system with your child is that they will become more easily manipulated by the prospect of material or social gain. In high school, social belonging or bullying can become a real problem. Some children or teens may feel so outcast that their values can be easily corrupted by the need to feel like they belong. Children raised with Democratic Parenting will develop a healthy confidence, good judgement and clear thinking that makes them immune to peer pressure and an untouchable to would-be bullies.

      Democratic Parenting peer pressure proofs your child through nourishing their needs for attention, connection, participation, affection and information within the home. If these needs are not met within the home, then it is only natural that the child, or teen, will seek them elsewhere. You can order the book here.
  • 5. Attention deficit or hyperactivity disorders [A.D.D. & A.D.H.D.] ?
    • Although it's not a cure, children who have been diagnosed with attention deficit disorder (A.D.D.) or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (A.D.H.D.) can benefit the most from using using the methods in Democratic Parenting. Children with attention and excessive energy thrive in democratic environments. You should order this book immediately. You can order the book here.
  • 6. Autism, Asperger's, or learning and adaptive difficulties?
    • This book is no cure to these issues, but these children can really make huge improvements in their social and emotional skills with these methods. Children who have been diagnosed with autism, aspergers, learning disorders or adaptive difficulties all show symptoms of disassociation, strong emotional reactions and difficulties with social interaction. The principles of Democratic Parenting can have a tremendous effect on these children because they will soon feel much more connected when you use the communication skills taught in Chapter 10 of Democratic Parenting. You can order the book here.
  • 7. What if my child on prescribed medication for psychological problems like ADD, ADHD, ODD, Autism, Asperger's, etc.?
    • If your child is on prescribed medication, then you definitely want to order this book. Democratic Parenting will not only help with some of the behavioral issues your child is having but it will also help them feel better about having these problems. It's very common for children who get diagnosed with these disorders to begin to feel isolated or disconnected because they feel like something is "wrong" with them. This can further negatively impact their personality development. Democratic Parenting will greatly help by giving your child a healthy voice through which they can express their true inner greatness with less stigma about their differences and challenges.
  • 8. How long will it take to see improvements in my child's behavior?
    • Depending on your own situation and your child's needs, Democratic Parenting generally takes anywhere between 14 to 30 days before you start to see changes in your child. Some children need more time than others to transition into new behavior. It may take up to 3 months is some cases. While other seemingly impossible kids may have a dramatic shift within the first week.

      In most cases, you'll start to see results fairly quickly after you begin this program, within months you will see a total transformation in your child's behavior by following the guidelines in Democratic Parenting. You can order the book here.

    Membership & Bonuses

  • 1. How can I log in to my account?
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      If you bought your book from Amazon or another retailer, then you need to e-mail us a copy of your receipt to support@ parentlearningclub.com. We will e-mail you back your username and password so you can also access these six free bonuses

      If you still can't access your personal membership site after going through the above-mentioned steps, please do not hesitate to contact us.
  • 2. How do I download the eBook ?
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      If you purchased the eBook through our website, then you have to login to your account; click on 'download my eBook'.
  • 3. What are the bonuses?
    • To make sure that the efforts you put towards building a strong and beautiful relationship with your children work, we are offering you six free bonuses. These bonuses complement the book, significantly helping you achieve your goals by reinforcing the lessons in this guide.

      The bonuses are a comprehensive set of e-mail based e-courses, audio mp3 exclusive interviews and reports. Get true, practical advice from world-famous parenting experts and doctors such as Naomi Aldort, PhD, Dr. Haiman, Dr. Robert Brooks and more.

      These bonuses are amazing; you do not want to miss out. One mother told us that as she was listening to one of the bonus interviews, a switch flipped inside her and she just "got it." Within a week her relationship with her daughter blossomed! Motherhood became what she had always dreamed it would be!

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